To become socially effortless, first you must learn.

During that “learning phase”, you’ll need to spend some time looking… well, a bit try-hard.

To help you through this phase with as little pain as possible, there’s this video. In it, we talk about:

• WHY some things make you look ‘foolish’ (hint: many folks are more adept than you)
• Why you cannot ‘stand still’ yet still learn social skills – you must pass the try-hard stage
• The five (5) BIGGEST mistakes/faux pas men make trying to develop better social skills
• Eight (8) tips to help you speed up your social learning curve (and exit ‘tryhard’ sooner)

HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT: keep in mind the faux pas we discussed. They’re crucial — and you must try not to make them.

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NEXT LESSON: Fantastic Fundamentals 23: Conversational Aptitude

Other lessons:

BODY FUNDAMENTALS

VOCAL FUNDAMENTALS

SOCIAL FUNDAMENTALS

• Part 20: Slick & Savvy Social Skills
• Part 21: Possessing Social Power (Premium)
• Part 22: Being LESS “Tryhard” (Free) [THIS VIDEO]
• Part 23: Conversational Aptitude (Premium)
• Part 24: Delivering Good Humor (Premium)
• Part 25: Appropriate, Timely Humor (Premium)
• Part 26: How to Build Social Momentum (Premium)
• Part 27: Maintaining the Right Social Reputation (Free)

FASHION FUNDAMENTALS

FUNDAMENTALS ACTION PLAN

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Want to go back to where it all started? Read my bestselling book How to Make Girls Chase… and make your way through the book that introduced the concept of Attractive Fundamentals. Discover all four categories of upgradable fundamentals — plus get my complete Method for making girls chase YOU.

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Read Girls Chase articles on social skills:

Social Skills 101 Series: a series of detailed lessons on crucial beginner social skills to master.

The Law of Least Effort: discover the law that governs all things socially powerful.

Sprezzatura, Effort, and Investing: understand the apparent effortlessness of socially powerful individuals.

Plus check out the entire Girls Chase Social Life section — it’s filled with eye-opening content!

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How to Disprove the "Looks Are the Pillar of Attraction" Ideology: the nail in the coffin for the “just raw genetic looks!” argument